Not that every day isn’t sacred – some just seem different. Today, Joyce and I get to serve as celebrants for a wedding – we don’t do that every day!
We both like it when this opportunity to serve arises. We are so eager to give, to fill the experience with joy, that we find ourselves diving deeply into each wedding as a new adventure.
The couple who called us forth today presents us with a new set of questions. For one thing, they’re quite young. For another, they haven’t paid a lot of attention to what they want their marriage to be. And, as we have all observed, these are challenging times.
All of which could be seen, or judged, as a problem. One friend jokingly asked me if I was sent by Spirit to talk them out of getting married.
Even though they are young, they have been together for awhile and together, they have faced some of the challenges life offers. Even though they seem to be kinda oblivious to their future, they have done some planning together around issues in their lives that need attention, and they seem very comfortably rooted in now. Even though the world around them seems strange and unpredictable, they seem not to be caught up in the drama of it all.
So I think Spirit’s assignment for us is to provide a launching for their marriage that will serve them in the coming days – whenever they need it. We’ve created a simple ceremony that speaks their truth about themselves and sets the stage for whatever may show up for them. As they move along their path, we hope they will find comfort in the words spoken today.
We’ve chosen a sacred space for the ceremony and collared two willing friends to serve as witnesses – friends who bring a loving, joyful energy and a connection to Spirit.
In a way, I am nervous about sending the kids off into the world as a married couple. But that’s just my stuff. They are not nervous – they are not crazy in love – they are the ones who seem grounded.
Our work together is about Spirit, and I know Spirit is fully engaged in this one. I can’t predict the future and I don’t even want to any more. I’m going to follow their lead, and Spirit’s guidance, and keep myself centered in love. And, I’m going to swim in the joy of this sacred day shared with my brothers and sisters in celebration of love.